You are so right about that. I already feel calmer and more focused. And less testy with my children. I actually am able to get things done because I'm not hanging around the computer to see when he logs in.
I'm really thinking about how I want my life to be and what kind of W I want to be. I actually don't think our M is over. But we both need space and I should really being enjoying this time instead of being panicky about everything.
Me: 44 H: 48 M: 4 yrs My EA: 2010 & 2012 Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11 H left 1st time: 10/28/11 Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11 H left 2nd time: 12/23/12 Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8
