Navyguy,

Your W sounds like me in my M. Reading it from your perspective really makes me amazed that my H put up with it for so long. I wanted him to meet my needs but I NEVER reciprocated. To me, showing love was too risky.

Me: 44
H: 48
M: 4 yrs
My EA: 2010 & 2012
Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11
H left 1st time: 10/28/11
Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11
H left 2nd time: 12/23/12
Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8