My personal thread hasn't shown up yet. I'm separated from H (I suggested he leave and he did) one month, we have no kids, no real reason to talk, he is in a different state, hasn't contacted me, I've contacted him 4 times. He responds in a very friendly way. Says nice things to me and XXXXOOOO stuff. I've changed my mind and want him back. Should I ask him to come home?
I've read some of your posts in other threads and you've mentioned that you are a WAS. Here's what you posted in another thread:
Originally Posted By: Lampstand
I am a WAS who has changed her mind. I don't know what to do!!! My H is living with his parents in another state. He will communicate with me by email and IM only if I initiate. Going dark does not work with him.
Should I not be DB if I am the one who ended it?
DB'ing is geared towards the LBS, not the WAS. So if you're the WAS you definitely do not want to go dark, you want to reach out to your H and tell him you've had a change of heart. He may be giving you time and space, who knows, maybe he's even on these forums and/ or has read DR and is implementing DB'ing. He may be holding back waiting for you to make the first move. So go ahead and do it!
