In Legal Limbo - What is next?

[Grateful]

Been awhile since I have posted. A lot has happened in the past month. During the processing of our final D papers, EW and I have been getting along well. We have been doing things together, just enjoying each other's company. She even commented that she liked what was going on. Yesterday, she tells me that in order for us to have even a chance of reconciliation, she has to sign the D papers and start completely over. I told her that I disagreed with signing the papers, but I supported her decision.

To be honest, I don't understand her thinking on this. I am not trying to be critical; I just honestly don't understand how finalizing a marriage can be the only way to rebuild. Please help me understand. Thanks.