Thread #8 - It's time.

[Navyguy]

Bond...we have not discussed it yet, but that was my main topic at IC last week. Things have still been going good...but we seem to be moving back toward limbo vice a healthy M. IC and Icame up with a plan to bring it up...and basically find out if W is doing this out of fear of leaving or if she really wants to be married. Her actions the last couple weeks tell me it is the former...but we'll see. If she's not willing to try to work on our problems, we'll be right back where we were before...and that's unacceptable to me.

While I would say she's no longer "mad", W seems largely disinterested in meeting my emotional and physical needs at this point. I know that takes time...but I expect to see some effort. If she's not willing to make our M a priority in her life and start working toward it being a mutually beneficial relationship, then we'll be back on the path toward a D.