This thread has motivated me to remove my H from my chat list so that I can no longer see when he's online. Now only he can see me and if he wants to talk to me he has to reach out. I think this will go a long way in getting my head focused on my life and off of him.


Me: 44
H: 48
M: 4 yrs
My EA: 2010 & 2012
Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11
H left 1st time: 10/28/11
Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11
H left 2nd time: 12/23/12
Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8