My wife called around 10:30 left a Vm that it was important. She tried calling again right after but I didn't answer. Bout 2.5 hours later I call back after doing my English homework.
My wife asked me if I could take D(5) this weekend because her and her cousin are going out of state to get her uncle because his cancer came back. I did my best with keeping calm and validating her feeling when she cried and apologized for crying on the phone. I told her she didn't have to apologize that I understand what she is going through. I then told her I have no problem taking D this weekend since family is important and bringing her uncle back to PA where the rest of his family is at is important.
At one point I asked her if there was anything I could do for her , and she said "yeah you could make this whole mess go away, all of it". Although i wanted to ask her what mess or do you mean the whole separation and time to think mess, I knew it as not the time or place to ask that right now. The Congo lasted about 20mins and I even asked her how she was doing considering last week was the accident. And she said she is doing better. She once again apologized for having to ask me to take my D this weekend and I once again told her there is no need to apologize.
I can't help but feel like I want to run up to the house and give her a big hug, or just send a text message to her and ask if me and my kids can come home but I know it's not the time and place to do so. Right now my heart hurts because she is hurting because this is her favorite uncle a father figure to her when her stepdad left and her father passed away.
