Look…I know I’m newbie I have been divorced now just over 5 months, and we basically stopped seeing each other 4 months ago. We were married 7 years, and her kids were 5 and 8 when we wed, 12 and 15 when we divorced. I was close with each, but particularly the boy, as we shared a lot of adventures. I never wanted to be divorced…and can honestly say that it has been the worst experience I can ever remember going thru. I always felt like I was the one in our relationship to look for a way to ”fix it”, whether it was a self help book or promoting counseling. I was doing some self reflective research on various behaviors that I felt contributed greatly to my divorce and then stumbled on a group of articles on Psychology Today about Marry, Divorce, Reconcile "One woman's path to joy in a reclaimed marriage" by Rachel Clark. All the information had my undivided attention as I slowly became overtaken in a desire to know more and more.....purchasing all the recommended readings, exploring other related articles.
Now…I am at that part in the road where I am looking for promising results or success stories on getting your wife/husband back after divorce.
I’m sort of confused, as I wanted a bit more direction to achieving my end goal of reuniting with my wife……and since we are not talking, we don’t share any children, just a couple of dogs that she gave me to care for and basically hasn’t even asked about since saying good bye, she has refused to let the kids see or talk to me at this point (2012 was worst Christmas ever), I am finding it hard to see where I will even stand a chance to start again. Anyone care to get me on the right mind set?
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12
