In this case, I think you should talk to your W. At the very least this is to establish boundaries between the two of you. I don't think sweeping it under the rug is a good idea IMHO.

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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