as far as OM texting her. Um I don't think so 25. My W didn't talk to me in 6 months. There was nothing to listen to. Plus I am not saying I completely and utterly dismiss what she is saying. I am saying I can be forgetful. I don't have the memory she has. It can sometimes frustrate her. That I can BE better in this area. That I REALIZE this can be an area for some growth.