25 it is a memory thing for sure. Sometimes she will tell me something and I will forget. It might be about a neighbor and there son's surgery procedure. How he got sick from the medicine and I thought he was sick from the surgery. That is one example she got frustrated. IDK seems a little petty to me. That I didn't remember it was the medicine and thought it was the surgery. But at the end of the day it bothered her and I want to be better in this category.
I'm not whining. I'm asking for help in this area. I'm also learning alot about my self in ACOA each week.
I have gotten a lot better at listening and sometimes I surprise her by recalling stuff she told me. She will say it seems like you weren't listening to me and then you recalled something.
I don't interrupt her all the time. I actually catch myself a lot. I will start making a conscious effort to look in her eyes and remember what she says.
