Odd question here - I am reading the book but not finished yet - is it a good idea for me to see other women?

I mean, it just seems wrong that she's with OM and I'm alone but I really don't want to do anything that could harm my chances with my W?


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013