Because I felt it was an afterthought. He had already told me he was going to coworker party, and I was going to my friend's. It wasn't until I asked if families were invited, that he said YES. by that point I was already a wreck.

I didn't "ask" him about my friend's party...he was talking to her about it at s's party on Sunday..he even asked me if I knew what time.

This morning, H told me last night was a.step backwards. I said, "because of trust issues?" And he said yes. We had our MC-requested hug and I left. Went outside to a.car encased in ice. After a few minutes, he came out and said "do you want help?" I said, "I got it." Next thing I knew, he was.scraping off my car with me.

Ok, so backslide last night...what do I do to "fix" this?