OK, I hear you. And as I said in the post, I wasn't referring to myself as I haven't posted to you but maybe once. It was more kml and some of those others who took the time to give you some pretty thorough, compassionate posts (in my opinion).
It's your journey, for certain. Just please make sure you understand the difference between "give up" and "moving on." Because the latter does NOT necessarily equal the former, and in fact it's often what you have to do (the old "let go of a bird" thing). It certainly was for me.
I'm pro-marriage, very much so. Just not an "at all costs" guy, and I don't particularly think that's healthy.
Starsky
Missed this...like I've said, I understand it may not work out. I'm Wiccan and realize that sometimes it's the journey that's important and maybe this is all just part of my journey. People keep telling me to just move on...move on...move on.
Seems to me that if that's everybodys advice these days why bother with calling this Divorce Busting, why try to stay together, why not everybody just get the mentality of "move on"? If that's truly the case for DBing, to just make yourself a better person and "move on" under the guise of saving your R, then it is very deceiving.
What drew me to DB was the positivity. The positivity that you can heal the R, heal infidelity, and move on together.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
