You will feel better as time goes on and remember, most of this is about her pain, her anger, her inability to express her needs to you. Yes we should all be more loving and giving but we can't read minds.
And you can't fix her. When you realize all this, it's so much easier to validate how they are now feeling.
Best of luck to you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
