Cake-Eating..I just don't understand

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Thanks Tired. Yes, I agree they are very selfish and self absorbed. I have stopped caring and almost laugh at the ridiculous things that my H does. Latest one, is that he wants to invest in a restaurant in NY. Good thing he is doing well professionally. He is still putting money each week into our joint account.

I have also read that MLC stems from unresolved childhood issues. My H is going to Boston next week to take his mom out for her birthday. He hasn't seen her in over a year and a half. I see this as a good sign for him in his progress out of the tunnel. Although I have zero expectations.

I still wonder if my H has an OW, although he swears he doesn't. I know he will never tell me unless it get more serious. I stop worrying about it. I just focus on me and the boys and doing whats best for us.