Well... she talked to a lawyer and wants the divorce asap. I tried really hard to be a good listener and validate her concerns but when she started in about how much money she wanted and how she just wants the kids to be happy and for us (me) to give and give I started to get a little irritated. I still held my tongue for the most part and tried to keep my voice neutral.

It's hard to listen to your wife say I'm entitle, I have to protect myself, while she walks away from everything.


You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.