Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Awesome news Tessa! Take it slow, don't go into full-blown pursuit mode or it might scare your H off. Just let him set the pace.


Thank you, AS. It's hard but I'm working on taking it slow. The other night, I wanted to start talking about ways to heal our R (one of a few topics). I stopped myself and just mentioned that I had nice time with him the past few days.

Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Originally Posted By: Tessa2012
Even though I was "omg, omg, omg" in my head, I calmly said "I'd like that.


Perfect response! Just keep that kind of thing going. Show him cool detachment as this develops.


Thanks, I'm trying. wink

I appreciate the feedback.

Me39 H35 M8 T14
Early 5/12 H FB post re: his love for me.
End 5/12 H done trying, writes "Dear John" letter
6/12 Wants D, calls ATTY, no file
1/13 Loves me, wants to try, moves home
3/13 Changes mind