Tumbling, your H is definitely avoiding the D talk, but I am not sure if it's bc he doesn't want to bother with it. I think he's afraid. He's afraid of losing you officially, he's afraid of being officially alone.
You have made your decision to move on, so it's true, you don't need to see him. You sure about your decision, right? I'm asking bc sometimes decisions can change and that's okay. I'm throwing it out there just in case. Only you know what's in your heart and what you want to do with your life.