Sunny 1) What is your goal of the conversation? 2) Are you having the conversation, so that you can try to manipulate, persuade, control or guilt her? 3) Are you skimping on your ability to make a choice and putting the pressure on her to make on? 4) Does this conversation align with YOUR goals (note – not HERS – YOURS!) 5) Deep down inside are you afraid of the answer you will receive? 6) Do you really need an answer from her? 7) Is the conversation worthwhile – will it add to your stress or reduce it? Sunny – we cannot control or change someone. We can only control and change ourselves. Life is short buddy….try and spend it happy. God Bless, Eric
Didn't mean to ignore you eric but in my church your spouse has to cheat or leave - I can't do it so I had to sit and wait now that she has had an affair I can part.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
