OK, I hear you. And as I said in the post, I wasn't referring to myself as I haven't posted to you but maybe once. It was more kml and some of those others who took the time to give you some pretty thorough, compassionate posts (in my opinion).
It's your journey, for certain. Just please make sure you understand the difference between "give up" and "moving on." Because the latter does NOT necessarily equal the former, and in fact it's often what you have to do (the old "let go of a bird" thing). It certainly was for me.
I'm pro-marriage, very much so. Just not an "at all costs" guy, and I don't particularly think that's healthy.
