Hi I was on here 4 years ago when my husband was having an affair, since then my husband has moved back home and we are working things out! we have a much better relationship now we get along better then ever. we have one problem driving me crazy intimacy!!!! he says I love you all the time , we hold hands etc. we havent had actual sex for 4 years! I try and talk about this with him and he says hes ready which I guess he is waiting for me, which is hard after being rejected Im not 100% sure if hes even attracted to me that way ?????? I really do not think he is sleeping w anyone but what man doesnt have sex for 4 years? I do love him very much and really want to save our marriage but really having a hard time with this. if i talk w him he thinks i am attacking him! I do not bring up the past I really want to move on. Its SOOOO HARD!!!! we are going to a marriage retreat in Feb I am so hoping this helps.
