"I really don't think we need to see each other to discuss this stuff. I just want to keep him onside."

this is how you feel about it. i read a bunch of negatives for you in this meeting. i don't think you want to do it. you don't seem to think it will accomplish what you need and already have an escape plan.

i think you will be more comfortable handling things through the mail, email, text.

but, if you think he won't cooperate with you any way but in person, you may have to go.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing