Separated, in different states....

[Lampstand]

My personal thread hasn't shown up yet. I'm separated from H (I suggested he leave and he did) one month, we have no kids, no real reason to talk, he is in a different state, hasn't contacted me, I've contacted him 4 times. He responds in a very friendly way. Says nice things to me and XXXXOOOO stuff. I've changed my mind and want him back. Should I ask him to come home?

I told him last week I wanted a legal separation and he told me to go ahead. I only said it to see where he's at (temperature taking). But after that we've chatted twice for over an hour. I've made oblique references to our M but he never really responds. We talked about other things.

I'm very confused and I don't see how ignoring him will convince him that I'm not going to ignore him anymore (this was one of my problems in the M--I could go days without acknowledging him). I was very cold and distant.

Help???????