Aventinus, no offense taken, In fact I appreciate your advice. It is difficult to be here, but with the support of our DB friends, a little easier indeed!
I struggle to keep positive, some days more then others. I understand this is a long process, I just wish it wouldn't be!!!
I'am learning from my mistakes and making small changes. Time is also helping me detach a bit more everyday.
Right now things are friendly at the house. I'm back in the house, sleep with S6, and w treats me like a friendly neighbor. I'm doing the best i can at not putting ANY pressure on her and we are both avoiding any R talks.
Thanks again Aventinus. I will try to read up on your sitch asap.
bye for now
Me:46 W:40 M:10 T:17 D:9 S:6 BD:12/11 ILYBINILWY:8/12 Served 2/13 I moved out 2/13 I moved back 6/13 W moved out 9/13