Aventinus, no offense taken, In fact I appreciate your advice. It is difficult to be here, but with the support of our DB friends, a little easier indeed!

I struggle to keep positive, some days more then others. I understand this is a long process, I just wish it wouldn't be!!!

I'am learning from my mistakes and making small changes. Time is also helping me detach a bit more everyday.

Right now things are friendly at the house. I'm back in the house, sleep with S6, and w treats me like a friendly neighbor. I'm doing the best i can at not putting ANY pressure on her and we are both avoiding any R talks.

Thanks again Aventinus. I will try to read up on your sitch asap.

bye for now


Me:46 W:40
M:10 T:17
D:9 S:6
BD:12/11
ILYBINILWY:8/12
Served 2/13
I moved out 2/13
I moved back 6/13
W moved out 9/13