Sometimes I ask myself if I would like to be in a relationship with a guy who doesn’t want me, and the answer is NO. Then I think about my H and ask myself the same question. And the answer is still NO.
Our spouses don't want to be in a relationship with us right now. But that doesn't mean their feelings can't change. That's the whole point of DB, and why we can still have hope as long as we choose to.
For me, it's all about doing everything I can to save/improve my marriage, so I can feel proud no matter if my marriage survives or not.
I believe Tori can be extremely proud of her effort and growth.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
