Hi Tori, I think you are right about not sending the e-mail to your H. In my opinion, as long as he knows that you are still open for a relationship with him, he will keep running away. I also know that it is hard to fully detach and still have your heart open to him. I have the same problem with my DBing. Sometimes I ask myself if I would like to be in a relationship with a guy who doesn’t want me, and the answer is NO. Then I think about my H and ask myself the same question. And the answer is still NO. It gives me some prospective and makes it a little easier to detach.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state