I basically have no contact with my H. I made him leave last month. I made the biggest mistake of my life and want him back. I know what I did wrong and pretty sure we can be happy together if I make these changes. But how do I ask him back if there's no contact? Not sure how to proceed.


Me: 44
H: 48
M: 4 yrs
My EA: 2010 & 2012
Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11
H left 1st time: 10/28/11
Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11
H left 2nd time: 12/23/12
Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8