He is running into other rooms to text her. Mainly the bathroom. It's getting like an obsession. Doesn't matter who is there. He thinks no one notices how frequent He leaves. He would never believe I would file I think. Once I do the verbal abuse may commence. I used his credit card no. today to pay for my counseling bill cause it was his fault I had to go see one. We will see if he notices.
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I think she should know because it's not just that we can't get along. This is the 3rd betrayal. Shouldn't he tell her?
I placed that second quote there to play it back to you. I realize it's a tough time right now. I really do and I sympathize. I've been where you are including the constant texting etc.
I never talked to her parents, nor do I plan to. I've entertained the idea a few times, but then I always realize it will not change things. She has to work through it on her own - or not. Either way, it's not her parents I need to talk to. As Snod rightly said, they have to see for themselves, and until then it couldn't possibly their child's fault. You know what I'm saying.
There is no need to tell him anything. If you are going to go through with it, just do it. He'll get the message when it is the right time. It won't change him, but it might surprise him. That's his to deal with.
My $0.04 worth,
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
