Ever feel like anything you do is the wrong thing to do? Nothing I say is a good enough answer - I get accused of lying etc. And I'm so sick of hearing how it's 'obvious' that I haven't been truthful with my friends and family about my shortcomings etc and that I'm not innocent. I suppose all of my family and friends are supposed to check in and see how he's doing - well, ok, am I supposed to call them up and ask them to do it? Not gonna happen. I told him again last night that he lets other peoples opinions have too much to do with our relationship. This is what he seems to bring up every time that he talks about why it is he isn't living with me. I need to 'own up' to my stuff. Suppose he doesn't have to own up to his? I try to stay off of the rollercoaster but then just get accused of sending him signals that I don't want to work on things, that I don't want him around etc.
I agree with your last statement there suckerpunch, but I guess I'm not sure how to make him understand it.
