my acoa support person gave me some good insight to go by:
Don't rush bringing up things as you have to think about where you want to be in a month, 3 months, year etc.
For example I do not feel comfortable with the relationship she still has with OM "guy" friend. But the positive now is she at least tells me when a male contacts her. She has told me on 3 different occasions since her changing her attitude. Each time I did not react in a negative way. Just listened really
