Sunny, I hope you don't leave the home or this board. You have friends. I know you have to do what's right for you, but remember this whole MLC thing can change on a dime. Read my recent events!
Your W sounds like a very sad, lonely lady. Your son is lucky to have you--and so is W even though she can't see it right now.
Let her do the work. If she wants the big D, then let her move out. The reality of doing something is very different than fantasizing about it.
Since you told her it's over, don't let her think otherwise even if you begin to reconsider.
I made a bucket list this weekend and it really helped my frame of mind. I began to remember things I WANT to do with MY LIFE.
Hang in there,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
