Thank you AJM...

Update...last night I sent email telling him I would help gather information. I kept any responses light and apologized for mistake. He did send nasty email about OM. He just wants to stay angry and not work on any of this. H has dilusions of life being single. I will continue my DBing and praying.

I still wear my wedding ring. Should I continue? I haven't seen him, but would like to know if I should take it off if I do? I don't want to be pushy, but I do want him to know that I am still married in my eyes and heart.

My daily saying..."I am a good person that made a horrible decision...God has forgiven me..."


Me 46/H 48
M 19/T 20
D 21 Away at College
D 17
PA 9/12
H left 10/23/12