He wants to go to the MC tonight to discuss the boundries I've stated and how would could navigate them, should he choose to accept them.
I'm detached. In my head he is moving out, so what can it hurt? I'm not going to budge on any of them, so we'll see.
This is probably him just trying to prolong moving out, or see what he can do without doing all of them...but I'm not going to waver. I don't even know if he agreed to all of them if I'd be ok trying. I will not tell him about the text I read, because it will give him the opportunity to just flip it back on me. JZOOM said
"IF he goes with transparency then I'd say do your part, trust but verify and if you have a question about something stay calm. It's all on him now, so if he goes with transparency I'd be checking everyday to start with and you calmly express that those are the terms until you, Tallula, are comfortable."
and I don't know if I can do this. So, I'd have some thinking to do. But, I swear I will fall out of my chair if he agrees to everything. Like, maybe have a full on heart attack
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
