D is just a piece of paper. H , in our long convos by text and email lol, said that if we were ever to have a relationship again, he would want a D first...weird, I know, but I also understand his position.
So, D does not bother me, really, and I think I personally am moving to the place where I would rather be D'd than separated myself. Sometimes I think it is for some of us, that last little step that forces us to detach completely, even if we still love S with all our heart
