Some people are cuddlers, some aren't.

Some like cuddling sometimes, not all the time.

Some not at all.

Be happy when she wants to cuddle, be aware of signals when she doesn't

Have you run into this one in your 12-Step? Q-TIP Quit Taking It Personally.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss