I know I get down on myself when it comes to my boys & dealing w all the parenting issues by myself. I do recognize my high expectations and the pressure I put on myself. Most nights we (me & the boys) do okay. We are getting used to our "new normal."
Tori, I don't think H has moved into a PA w OW yet, but you are right that it could already be happening and he just hasn't told me (as he said he would). If/When this happens I think I will be done. I've thought about this a lot & his actions have been so deliberate & thought out that I think if he goes into a PA it will just be the decision he's come to after this whole time of "thinking it through."
On another note my mom's BF ( and long-time family friend) who was only 60 suddenly died in her sleep this weekend--no previous medical history/illness. Just died. Her death as well as my MIL's in August has me really thinking about life differently.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
