Is this MLC or WAS? Don't know what to do...

[BrightFuture]

I haven’t been posting for a while. I was just reading other posts and tried to process my feelings. I went through lots of different feelings during the last week, from happy to sad, from hopeful to done…
Here is the update. Last week I went to a little town where our vacation home is and where my H has been leaving for a month now. I went with the friend and stayed at her house. I had no intention to visit my vacation home or try to bump into my H. It just happened this way. This is a small town and lots of people know each other. We went to the office where our friends (and my H’s friend’s) work to say hi and to find out what they were doing that night. We stopped by a small bar/restaurant adjacent to the office and saw one of our friends there. There were a few other people there, including my H. He was very surprised to see us. He saw my girlfriend first and gave her a hug, then he saw me, so he had to give me a hug too. I looked my best and got lots of compliments from the people. H was kind of uncomfortable the entire time we were there.

Well, we bumped into him one more time, when we were leaving on Monday and stopped to say goodbye to our friends. He walked into the office while we were there. Then he left with the guy friend while we talked to his wife. Then I decided to stop by our house to see if I left my favorite shoes there, since I could not find them at home. To my disappointment my H and our guy friend were there (I thought that they were going somewhere else.) I asked if I could go upstairs to check for my shoes and H said of course I could. We didn’t stay long, just chatted a little and left. I didn’t notice anything unusual in the house. My girlfriend was behaving a bit arrogant and made a few stupid comments. I didn’t feel good about it. I regretted that I decided to stop by after all.

During our visit with our friends there I had a couple of conversations with the wife our friends are a couple) and she brought up the subject of her relative and my H’s contacts with her. She said that she called her relative and that the girl again assured her that there was nothing going on. I asked my friend about the number where my H called and had a 4-hour conversion and she told me that the number indeed belonged to her relative. Then she was so upset saying that her relative is probably lying to her. She was so concerned about this story, which made me suspicious that they know more than they tell me. After these conversations I felt pretty bad about sitch, like I was spinning my wheels for nothing and that there is no point trying to save my marriage. I felt that my H who I loved and respected, is not the same man anymore and I will not be able to trust him again.