Tori, yes I was the one ready to walk out 4 years ago. But after some thoughts I realized that I just was making treats to force some changes into our marriage. When I realized that my H took it seriously, I back out immediately, we had a serious conversation and started to patch things up. It was good for some time, but everything went back to the old habits. I think we just didn’t have the right tools to make the things last. I’m more mature in terms of relationship now, and I think we could really make our marriage work, but my H doesn’t believe it any longer.
So far, I have not seen any evidence of a serious A. I think there is something at the beginning stages, I will elaborate in the next post.
He has not filed for D yet, and didn’t even start separating any accounts, credit card, etc. It looks like he thinks that he can keep all financial matters as they are, but wants to start his life over. This doesn’t make sense to me at all. I haven’t filed either, but I’m thinking to separate our business.
Thank you so much for the hugs. I’ve been following your story and get a lot of courage from you. I do hope that your H will wake up soon before he loses you for good.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
