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Nero you even saying this to yourself is big - "YOU DON'T WANT TO BE HERE WITH ME- SO DON'T TELL ME HOW TO ARRANGE MY STINKING CABINETS"!
Its good because your standing up for your self, but you don't feel the need to put it in his face. Keep it up!
Today is a good day...h is involving himself a little with family doings like chores and things were concerned about. He has made efforts to talk to me, bring me toast w/honey, and cleaned out the garage for my car.
He wanted me to back it in to which I said I would rather not but he said it would be better. I still don't think so but I did it, he said thank you and I went in the house feeling like I'm going to show him by example how to act. Whether he gets it or not is his issue.
I will make sure that when I make those decisions to "do things his way" its out of compromise and not out of obedience against myself. Picking my battles here!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
