I do need to listen. W has definitely criticized me for that. I am the same on honest and authentic communication. I don't think she can get there on a deep level. It scares her.
Looks like I will be forced out by end of Feb with nowhere to go. I have to delay that the best I can.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.