Time for an update: I am pretty much living out of state now. Was home for Christmas then came back home Jan 18 for the weekend. Had planned on seeing a movie with W on Sat night but she asked for a rain check. I was pretty dissapointed at the time but am determined not to "pressure". Contact while i am gone has been fairly minimal. Taking T2 and Mr B's advice to be somewhat dim.
Had very interesting/suprising conversation on Thursday. She called to let me know how some doctors appointments went and mentioned she had used a gift card our son had given her and bought a study Bible for her ipad. I will take that as a positive step.
Will be back home next weekend for daughters birthday. We are all going to a dinner/play. Looking forward to it, see how it goes.
I would rather feel pain then never feel at all... Separated 3/2012 T 34 yrs M 27 yrs
