sub, after H moved out it was months before I saw or talked to him.

He didn't come to the house or talk on the phone at all.

We communicated by email (his request)about our sons so I had that communication link. Early on, if I called his phone, he wouldn't answer.

Now he will come here for specific reasons, things to do with the sons and we converse easily. He still hasn't filed for D and we are doing the taxes together again this year. None of that means anything to me, it just shows that nothing is "for sure" in this.

Who knows where you will be 6 months from now.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss