Well, today he seemed to be entertaining the idea of transparency. However, now he claims that he sees that my having access to his phone, etc will just create more problems. Like I will question something & not accept his answer & the we'll get in a huge fight. He said that just like I want to be able to trust him, he wants to be able to trust me with access. My only answer was that I need it, and we could go to the MC to discuss these "communication" issues.

I'm not backing down. Transparency, or get out. Still more on the just get out train.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D