Then maybe your 180 on it would be taking it over completely OR at least offer to help. I love being charge of our finances but for me I felt so resentful only because I didn't think my H appreciated it enough. If he had mentioned something like "Our finances are good because of you" or "Thank you for taking it over. My finances were a mess before you took charge" I guess my love language is very much word of affirmation. But it turned out though he DOES appreciate it so much I found out in the couple group session we attended last year.
Maybe your w really wants you to help or just looking for words of appreciation.
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins
