Wow, have things changed

[leopoldstotch]

You handled that very well. You should be proud of yourself. I think he's just trying to get sympathy from you by saying he hates himself etc. Please dude you don't hate yourself you are just mad that you can't have your cake and it too anymore. If he really felt that way about himself he would do what it takes to save himself and his M. Ok I'm done ranting.

It's very good that you were calm. Just remember to remain calm when you talk to him and don't let him make you feel guilty about anything. His world is gonna crash down on him. Oh and don't stop posting you need support while going through this.