W will do what she wants. Time for ME and D3 !!

[25yearsmlc]

thanks 25! You are right, I need to exercise badly. She has taken interest in my vitamins TWICE since BD. I shave EVERY day now, clean smooth face. I smell nice all the time.

So, even though I think these questions are EXTREMELY unlikely, what should the answer to these be? Or more accurately, how should they be phrased?

1) as far as the money for trip to OM "Hey can I have some money in case something happens?" Answer?

AT MOST (and b/c you seem to like to say A LOT, say this)--and act surprised too--

"You're kidding, right? You're NOT actually asking ME for money to cheat on me with, AGAIN, are you? B/C That CAN'T be MY job to provide. So, no."

Be calm, firm and taken aback. End the topic as if it deserves no more of your time. (The nerve & sheer absurdity of her request must not be overlooked).




2) As far as the Divorce "Hey when are we going to file for the divorce?"

who is asking whom this^^^ question? Do NOT let it be YOU asking or pushing. She's not nearly ready to say "I choose You" if you give her an ultimatum.




I DOUBT THIS QUESTION GRATELY because if she was 100% sure the first day or two after BD, she is certainly not sure now. The more I back off, the more she engages.

then learn something from this^^



Right now she has sent me 3 pictures of D3, one at the part, one in the car on the way home, and one in our living room. Each picture message has a series of messages inbetween that are littered with smiley faces and LOLs.

Last time she went to OM was last Tuesday. It is saturday, and she asked me what we are doing tomorrow with D3. so, I am assuming she will not go until either Monday or Tuesday making this the longest stretch since the start. Not reading into it, just an observation.

maybe he's busy. Maybe he's not. Don't read into it, but accept that it's better than the alternative.

Do the 180s and do them WITHOUT staring at her for her reaction. The changes are so YOU can become the man YOU want to become.