do I make an appointment for mediation, get all my legal ducks in order, move out and co-parent separated continuing to DB hoping for her to come around. (this would make her happy because it's what she wants)
It won't make her happy no matter what she says to the contrary.
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do I continue to stay in the house, let her move out if she want to, and our R goes further south, she probably would serve me with D papers soon after she moved out.
Frankly I'm surprised you're even asking this. Many of us have told you over and over again not to move out. Your L told you not to move out. Are you going to keep asking this hoping that someone will eventually tell you what you want to hear? You've heard the advice on this already. It's your decision now.
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She is totally done with me, she feels no love for me, she doesn't kiss me, we have not slept together or ML in 6 months, she just wants me out of her life and she wants to move on.
Yeah, same as my sitch. W didn't start coming out of the fog until after the 6 month mark. Sometimes it takes much longer.
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All the fighting for our M I've done has not helped at all.
If you're fighting for your M then you're not DB'ing. DB'ing is all about letting go of the fight and turning the focus on yourself.
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She will not read anything I ask her to, she will not respond to any talk of R, she only responds to me talking about mediation,separation,and D.
In DB'ing you do not EVER ask your W to read anything related to saving M's. And what do you mean she won't respond to talk of R, are you doing this too?? These are both forms of pressure and are to be avoided.
