FWIW, I interpret that song as meaning that they DON'T feel special, but want to be...as usual, YMMV...
Hang in there!! T^2
I absolutely agree, that's why I wanted to initiate a conversation about it so I could convince her that she IS special. We both know that won't work.
I often wonder what I can say regarding compliments and words of affirmation. When I say nice things she doesn't accept it... thinks I'm just saying it because I'm her husband so I have to. if I don't offer WOA, then I feel I'm not being supportive.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl