I have been try unfortunately there were decisions that needed to be made about the sale of our house and she was not helping. Also it everytime I did not contact the w. She would contact me asking what was going on. I have do a lot of growth, yes I still miss her and yes I will always love her I want move on in my life I know I need to separate for her but. Want to do it admirably. I do not want us to waste time and money with attorneys. She is the one who wanted this why is she acting on it. Just the other day she close a joint bank account that all our joint bills are deducted from. Now we be charge a fee because of missed payment because I cannnpt stop payments that have already be submitted.